Shifting Sands of Personality - Resolve with TA

     

The idiom Shifting ˈsands (of something) describes a situation that changes so often that it is difficult to understand or deal with it: the shifting sands of the digital age.

          Going by the meaning of idiom above, do you think that relationships face instability and in the worst case a turbulence?
          Ship anchorages at the port, the former accepts and avoids signal of the lighthouse to drop anchors at the right port and while in the sea, the captain of the ship uses Pole star or Compass for right directions so that the ship anchors at the destination port.        A ship is our Body, Mind while our personality is the destination port. We become what we choose to be - symbolizes that the Personality we choose to become is where we anchorage our vessel of Body, Mind. The changes in them happen accordingly which leads to growth in the relationship. The Lighthouse signal is akin to the stimuli [signal] we receive from the world that we accept or avoid those signals based on our Port of Destination i.e. The Personality, one chooses to be.

        Polestar and Compass symbolize that the navigation of ship is in the right direction, which also applies to our journey in PERSONAL GROWTH and CHANGE. The latter, if based on right knowledge reduces the chances of shifting sands in personality.
       Knowledge is Compass or Pole Star of our life. TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS as behavioral science brings about Systematic Personal Change and growth.
In Transactional Analysis, Behavioural Diagnosis plays an important role to understand Shifting Sands of Personality. All aspects of personality are diagnosable within TA and link to deeper and forgotten crevices of causes, which triggers a relationship-wrecking behavior. As the rightly navigated ship wreckage happens due to an unexpected change in climate, similarly our vessel faces physical stress, emotional trauma. When external stimuli trigger a reaction out of unawareness.  "Why I behave the way I Behave?” – An embedded query in the tools of TA.

            In Transactional Analysis - We all are OK. It means each one of us is valuable beings but our actions can slide us down or lift us to the level that we are lost in the sea or land up at the wrong port or continue to be anchored in our port.
          Ta is helpful where a need exists to understand human, individual within the group, and organizational setting. TA allows people to decide what they want to change by applying tools that stimulate changes we desire to see.
           TA will help you to know Shifting Sands of your Personality and aid you with empowering means to enhance Intimacy, Spontaneity, and Awareness in life so that you can live an AUTONOMOUS life in your relationship